How it works

Find a life partner, the halal way

RuhMate makes it easy for Muslims in Sri Lanka to find a spouse. With a simple, private process, you connect with compatible profiles while staying true to Islamic values — no public photos, no direct messaging.

  1. 1

    Create your account

    Sign up with your name, mobile number, and a password to create a secure, verified account. New members receive free points to explore the platform.

  2. 2

    Build your profile

    Add your details — education, profession, family background, expectations, and a short preference description. No profile picture is ever required or shown.

  3. 3

    Explore AI-ranked matches

    Our AI reads your free-text preferences and surfaces the most compatible profiles first. Browse an anonymous feed and filter by what matters to you.

  4. 4

    Unlock & connect

    When a profile feels right, spend points to reveal their contact details. From there, you and your families proceed privately, in accordance with the Sunnah.

Built on Islamic principles

No profile photos

Modesty by design — judged on character, not pictures.

No in-app chat

Connections move to family-led conversation, not endless DMs.

Anonymous by default

Your name and contact stay hidden until you choose to reveal.

Family-reviewed

Verification with guardian involvement keeps profiles authentic.

Curious how the matching works? See AI matching.

Begin your journey, in shaa Allah

Create your free RuhMate profile and let AI surface your most compatible matches — privately, respectfully, and the halal way.